Frankly speaking, after having my baby, there were so many moments that I wanted to go back even before marriage and I couldn't believe that situation was real. It was impossible to sleep well for almost 2 years and it made me nervous and depressed. Going through the long tunnel, I met the shadow of my mind and the weakest part of myself. I'd been quite negative and even hard to feel various feelings. At that time, I was not sure but It was obviously post-natal depression. About 3 years later, at last, I could begin to loose tension and think and feel like before. Even though the course was painful, I thank God to give me the chance to face my weakness and above all, for the only one valuable present, my son. From him, I see the energy and the wonder of life and pure love itself. In addition, it's amazing to identify he is a real creation from us because he has his own unique personality. Of course, dailylife with a child is not easy and it could be challenging in some ways. Everyday parents try and try again to be good one. Some days it's sucessful but in other times it fails. Through the experiences as parent and child, we can learn about each other and also meet ourselves. As such time goes by, we are getting mature. we start to think about a better world for our children. This attention spread gradually to other children, poor people, social inequality and  so on. By having a child, you can realize humanity and have different point of view. Everything will be changed in your life.